Anonymous asked: My girlfriend is a virgin, we tried having sex and I only put in the tip but she said it hurt so we stopped. Do I just get her comfortable with my fingers first and be patient? Any tips? Also how do I bring up her giving me head or handjobs. She's pretty shy
1. Tell her it only hurts getting it in. The second it’s in, it won’t hurt. I’m tight as fuck and it still hurts putting it in sometimes. But once it’s in, I’m good and it feels amazing - even my first time. I don’t know about her, but just do it slow. Fingers might help. Honestly though I’ve been in situations where a guy hurt me more with his fingers. Just whatever you do, be gentle.
2. Handjobs, you can just take her hand and put it on your cock. For head, I like it when a guy just gently push my head down to his crotch, hinting that they want me to give them head. If I’m not dating a guy, I don’t suck their dicks unless they hint it. She probably won’t say no if you do that. If she does, whatever, move on and stick your dick in her pussy.. you’ll last longer anyway ;)
