Anonymous asked: Hey, I don't know how to say this haha I'm 17 (girl), virgin. I have a bf older than me, and he never had sex too. And when we are kissing and these kind of things, I get wet really easy... But he doesn't seem to be 'happy' there. I feel like a perv. Oh and he doesn't seem to want to do anything! I am not ugly (or at least I think), but it looks like I don't turn him on. Not that I want to have sex, but it's strange that he is not excited as I am. What should I do?

First of all you shouldn’t have to worry about whether it’s your appearance or not - even ugly porn stars get pounded by huge cocks. Second, how do you know he’s not turned on? Have you ever put your hand on his ‘junk’ when you’re making out? I’m sure if you give him a little rub even just over his pants, he’ll get kinda excited. Try it. Maybe he’s shy? If that’s not your style, then honestly just ask him. That’s what I would do, it’s the only other way you can get an answer.